Sue, the administrators of the group have the legal right to delete whatever on Facebook......Facebook itself is not owned by the HSMG membership. And if you are not an administrator, you would not see the pending requests. I am an administrator of another group (not soap or business related) and you as the administraor can toggle the settings however you want, including to be able to see who is a member and who is not, who can post or if comments can even be posted on topics. As far as I know........